In Deleuzian philosophy, death is theorized as a becoming-imperceptible. In my poetic and autophenomenographic  reflections on death, dying and mourning, following my long-term partner’s death from cancer some years ago, I have been in dialogue with   Deleuzian frameworks as well as with neovitalist feminist materialist philosophies (Braidotti 2006, Bennett 2010). The above title is inspired by these dialogues, and this will also be my point of departure in the presentation. However,  prompted by desires to move beyond  the imperceptible, I have also taken other paths, one  relating to indigenous cosmologies, another to queer ecologies. The possible intersections of these paths are explored in the paper.